Kate Gosselin: Yeah I Went There.

So Kate Gosselin, as some of you may know is the mother of eight on Dancing With The Stars, who has also starred on Jon & Kate Plus 8, and written two books about her life & children. Now Kate Gosselin is not a topic that has "rocked my world". Usually topics that rock my world, I am pissed or happy. At the moment, I am neither and just want to write a little blog on my feelings towards Kate.

Many of the things Kate does I can relate to. Her birthday is a day after mine and she carries many Aries traits, one of them being selfishness. Kate cannot deny that she is selfish in some ways. I am not here to tear Kate down nor bring her up. Simply put I don't like Kate, but that should be my opinion, an I don't know why I (among others) are being ridiculed for our opinions towards Kate.

Now as I speak, keep in mind that I do not mean EVERYONE.

People say that you shouldn't judge Kate because we do not know her. First of all, if you are human, you have judged someone you don't know whether subconsciously, or for a split second. If a women wearing a midriff covered in tattoos passed a conservative person, most likely that person is labeling the tattoo wearer as a rebel, and possibly a whore. Kate puts her life in public eyes and we DO know her. Are you trying to tell me the person she portrays on TV is NOT the real Kate? So..she's a fake? Well then I really do not like her if she is a fake!

Now in all honesty I have no problem saying I like certain things about Kate. I like her makeup on DWTS, I adore her longer locs (looks soooo much better than whatever she had on her head before), and I like the free purse the contestants got for DWTS. On the other hand, her most recent dress for Paparazzi on DWTS was absolutely horrific, and her hair needed some work, and...she cannot dance.

Kate has some real issues as far as demeaning her husband, and her obsession with cleanliness. This is where my dislike for Kate comes in. When you have kids, your selfishness must subside. Now Kate no longer has this opportunity to provide her children a stable environment as a working mom. My mom worked 2 jobs for me and I stayed home with my dad most of the time. IF I liked my dad, I might have been an OK child. Kate no longer has this liberty to work and leave her children alone with a parent. Jon is not an angel in this situation, but I think their marriage would have had hope had Kate not been an overbearing Wife. A man is very sensitive (among simple). They have an Ego jar that needs to be filled. If you don't fill that Ego jar, they turn to another woman willing to fill that Jar for them! No ones saying to call your husband handsome every minute of the day, but you damn sure don't do the opposite every minute of the day! Would you want to be called the lesser parent, the lazy one who can't do anything, without the reassurance that you're trying and that you're a good husband/wife? Exactly. The second qualm is that Kate wants everything clean. Well sorry, when you have kids (especially 8!) that's impossible, but you damn sure try don't you Kate? I don't know what's wrong Shout? Shout is fantastic for blood, dirt, and food stains even if it's been left in for a few days. Spray it on and wash it, the stain is out! Shout it out! Come on now Kate, that's not TOO much work for you is it? As far as marker stains, or paint stains, there's old shirts I'm sure you can give them, or just buy some plain white T's they're not that expensive, or buy them aprons. That must be too easy of a solution. O.o

In the end, every person is different, and I am quite tired of people so quick to point the finger at someone else because they are opinionated. And so quick to knock Jon down, as if Jon is the only idiot in this situation.

Quite frankly I am sick of the media and how they twist everything around. Post the facts or not at all. There's two different source stating the DWTS cast loves Kate, and another saying she is a diva, well which is it!?

This would be the reason why I don't openly go searching for news, but if I hear about it, I'm going to talk about it. End of story.

Tyra Banks Show: Teen Marriage

Woo, where to begin. Well I am currently watching The Tyra Banks Show, and that is my girl. On T.V. anyway, our age difference would be quite unsettling if we were actually friends, lol. Anywho, I will be adding things as I go on and watch the show when a break comes on. The first break just started so I will try to get in all my information as quick as possible.

So the first girl just came on, she is 15 years old, and is engaged to an 18 year old. She is taking fertility drugs to get pregnant. Sweety, obviously you are not meant to be pregnant. It's fifteen year olds who haven't even started menstruating. She thinks she is grown. You know how she got the drugs? She used her momma's credit card. So someone please tell me how she will buy her baby's diapers and take him to the doctor??? Okay it's back on...

Well now, I have a few questions for that momma there. But she will be on next so I am sure Tyra will let her know. Lol. It's very unsettling. It's hard to understand. I would want to give my child everything, and have a nice wedding. I am 18 and I am ready to get married if that great guy comes along, but that may be another 2-5 years and I am in college, and have a job, even if I were to be engaged, the actual marriage might not happen for awhile. When I was 15 marriage was a nice dream, but not what I wanted just yet. Guys were still immature assholes for me, and I just can't wrap my finger around what people are thinking these days. I don't think they understand. I watched my mother struggle, and struggle to give me what she wanted for me...I don't want my family to struggle, and when you purposely get pregnant at 15, that's what you're doing. She says Jamie Lynne is her Idol. Jamie has MONEY. She can support that baby and look like it's a fab life but it's not!! Everyone said some little girl would come out thinking Jamie was amazing, and I didn't believe them, looks like I was wrong...Another Pause.

Awwww, there is always some underlying cause of why the little girls wants to be married. Take a guess, I'll give you a second to take 1 guess.......Finished? Well she feels upset that she has no friends, her father is missing, and she wants something of her own that she could love and hold. This is mental/psychological for me. I think when daddy is missing, or causes stress in the family, and if your daughter is feeling abandoned in school then you need to talk with her! I used to be the same way, but I opened my eyes. I still grew up, but I wasn't going to change my life with a baby. It's a sad thing, but single mothers can raise healthy kids. Just because daddy isn't there or not supportive like mines, it doesn't mean your daughter or you (if you're a child reading) has to go through the pain and struggle and wanting to get pregnant. When Tyra comes back she says whther or not this girl is pregnant. I feel like I'm making a synopsis lol. I think this is my favorite blog so far.

Alright well she is not pregnant, of course, lol. I hope she changes her mind. It's something totally different to have an accident, and become pregnant, but when you are TTC(Trying To Conceive) at 15, it's not...right. So now, I will wait for the next couple for me to rip apart. *Evil Laugh*

P.S. I do totally understand the world not letting you grow up, and it is frustrating, but you have to get over it because being young has restraints. You can't get a good job and honestly I am happy to be 18 and in college lmao. It's frustrating, but you have to occupy your time and do things that people your age are doing and live life...don't live it too hard though!!
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Lol, the next girl, Kirsti was proposed to in Walmart, lmao. That's SOOO romantic. I would not mind a simple down on the knee but, please do not catch me in the grocery store, that's not cute nor creative. Do it in a restaurant, even my house, but in a walmart? That's not classy. I know people who would probably say it shouldn't matter, but I feel like Walmart is classless and childish. I try not to be a shallow person, but I want something creative and memorable, and if a guy proposed in the restaurant which is rather traditional, I would be happy. So I think that's pretty unshallow. Right? RIGHT!? Lol. I can't get over Walmart though...who does that???

Her boyfriend broke up with her twice for some other girl. Sure he apologized but obviously he is not ready to settle down. She is setting herself up to be heartbroken through constant cheating because when they're married, he can't say, "I want to break up with you." He'll end up sneaking around her back.

These couples seem very unsettled and though my heart goes out to the first one for many reasons; they were interracial, and felt ready and actually had a sense of maturity to them, the overall fact is life cannot be completed when young. The economy, the media, and your family does not allow for such things. I know I personally would not my daughter getting married at any age under 18, and if she is 18 she would have to be in college and keeping her ass there, either that or she better not be living in my house, that goes for a son too. *Ahem* So that's what rocked my world so early in the morning, it's about 1:00 AM now and I am just chillin' lol. I am also shocked how orderly everything is, and I wrote a conclusion! Some english teacher out there has got to be proud! Please comment on your ideas, or my ideas and thoughts on this subject.